Tag: Catalysts

Daddy’s Superpower: Explaining Stuttering to My Son

Why do you talk like that daddy?  The anticipation of this question hangs ominously as I wait for my son to learn how to talk. While a toddler, his innocence extends to adults who often express the same uncertainty without saying the words.  By accommodating his curiosity, I have the opportunity to describe stuttering as

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Finding Anchors: Others Ground Us

When I pull back the aperture from the grind of my journey towards change, I see clearly the catalysts that propelled me forward. The catalysts were the people who came and went or remain in my life that left an indelible mark.  If you have been following along as I’ve deconstructed my journey through stuttering

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Storytelling: A Catalyst for Self-Acceptance

It was sink or swim, and storytelling was how I learned to swim. Dating sat atop my fear hierarchy like it does for many, but more so for me because of my stutter.  Success at dating goes no further than first impressions, and in the age of swiping left or right—though before then as well—that means

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Please, Just This Once

At thirteen-years old, I attended a month long intensive fluency clinic to fix my severe stutter. If I didn’t do well, I would stutter forever.  I didn’t do well. Fast forward eighteen years to a moment when I was answering questions as part of a talk I gave at the National Stuttering Association’s (NSA) annual conference. “Why do most people who

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